Unfortunately— and literally no one is talking about this— if you buy many many little treats for yourself, cumulatively, this can add up to a larger amount of money, if you add the numbers together. I’m not sure if there’s anything to be done about this but thought I would bring it to the attention of my beloved and far-reaching audience
who are you when you are not watching tv or movies? when you aren’t playing video games or reading a book or fanfiction or listening to music or whatever other kind of media that you engage with? who are you when your mind isn’t in another world or story, when you are forced to sit with yourself and the only experience you have is your own sensorial life? can you define yourself outside of what you consume? who is that person? do you like them? can you bear it? can you bear it?
i am not asking if you can sit completely still and do absolutely nothing. are the only options a) consuming media or b) doing nothing? what lies outside of that? if you were to create space for a version of you outside of that, who might that be?
and people wonder why I say that transphobia is a danger to everyone.
I wish I was fucking joking
but sure “we can always tell” crowd telling a cis man to kill himself because they think he’s trans. that totally normal behavior. terfs are totally just normal average members of society who want what’s best for everyone. they totally aren’t genocidal fascists who want to kill everyone who disagrees with them or anyone they simply don’t like.
That’s the reality of intersexism! Any bodily traits that can be deemed intersex are deemed a medical condition that needs to be dealt with, rather than a natural human variation.
Sex as a binary system is entirely a social construct just as much as gender is. It’s fairly normal for people born with penises to develop breast tissue, just as it’s normal for people born with vulvas to grow facial hair. But if we called those things normal human variations, we’d have to change how sex and gender are seen entirely in our society. A lot of people would lose a lot of money and control.
